BLAME

"It's your fault! You wanted control, now you have it! "  How can your own grown child say that?!  Control?!  I am unemployed right now.  But, I have worked two jobs to keep you.  I have given up my life to keep you. I never take for me.  You work! He works!  And, you feel justified NOT to bear any responsibility in this.  They are YOUR children. Yet, you feel no responsibility to keep them safe in a real home. No BLAME! Blame me.  Because you feel better that way.  You are wrong!  Grow up!